I'm truly sorry to hear that you are having these problems with your host. Its hard to recommend what to do because it doesn't seem like you'll get anywhere. You can threaten to sue all you want, and he probably won't care, and the cost of sueing would not be worth it to begin with. So thats out of the question. A simple refund seems out of the question. Maybe your best bet is to just use the server and try to get the most out of your money. Maybe someone else has other suggestions....my thinking well seems empty