Originally Posted by Lesli

You seem to have a LOT of pretty good legal questions. While you're getting some good advice, you're also getting advice from people who aren't legal professionals and who might not be familiar with the laws of your area. I recommend that you make a list, gather all information you've received, and make one consultation-appointment with a lawyer. It might be costly; but you'll get a whole bunch of questions answered in one go. Prepare well, and you'll definitely get your money's worth. Knowledge is power.