I can give you what you request, sans TMDA. I'll look into the possibility of an installation, though.

We actually have a home-grown control panel in development, but it's entirely optional. We don't run cpanel/plesk/ensim for much the same reason you don't want it.

If you're interested, please let me know (via PM or email) -- I'd be happy to discuss our services/setup further. None of our current packages match what you ask for, but we'd be happy to offer a custom quote.

Best,

Ryan C.