I'm not quite following you, Charlie. While it's true that there are rarely sites, themes or templates that push all my buttions, I'm not following the compromise question when I do find one. The first thing I notice is theme and readibility, then content and navigation. More often than not, if the site is hard to read, doesn't matter if the content is great - I simply move on. On the other hand, if the theme isn't so great, but readibility and content have value, I'll hang around awhile to explore.
